I have always been unlucky in online networking sites. I have an account in Downelink, Connexion, and even in guys4men yet I could not get the attention of guys I like. When finally I received a message each in Downelink and Connexion, the senders were both old men--as in really old foreign men, you would suspect they were pedophiles! (sorry, bad...)
When I signed up for guys4men, I was amazed that it has a way of telling you which guys bookmarked you as a hottie (haha, in my dreams! well, I'm still hoping that someone hot could also find me hot... kinda have a low self-esteem here). And when I checked it, there was only one guy. Guess what? He was another oldie... I have nothing against old men. I know that I will also get old. But, they are just not my type. And I wonder why I seem to attract them... (sigh)
Friday, September 21, 2007
Why, oh why?
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may ganun?
I suppose you should just tune down your expectations?
Or be a more active "searcher."
or maybe improve the contents of your profile so you'd get more hits on searches?
thanks. well, i don't expect much naman. it's just that the oldies i refer to here are those who are really old to be my father or grandfather.
i actually prefer men who are older than me, perhaps two to five years older, for a partner. or perhaps even up to 35 years old. :)
i try to update my profile once in a while.
set a range! baka malay mo those guys arent as old as you think...
i think we both have the same problem. networking sites are there when you want to have a quickie haha..
the real deal happens offline, meaning the bars like bed or government or elsewhere. you have to be out there (even without 'outing' yourself)
@kai santorino
well, i really want to try going to bed or government, but i don't have friends who could go with me. and i'm afraid i might get intimidated. sana makapunta naman ako.
hay ako rin! my girl-friends are the ones who are forcing me to go there because they think this face needs a hot boyfriend (kidding)
oh well maybe we should go together haha
@kai
sure! tara. :) i'll send you a message at mybloglog/gmail. :)
ganun bah.
don't worry ian. networking sites don't trademark u as unwanted. i agree with kai santorino --> "real deal happens offline"
ako rin naman hindi pinapansin sa mga sites na ganun.
don't be sad okai.
wats ur name ba sa g4m?
i-favorite kita. =)
hi chase, thanks! can you email me at yourgayness@gmail.com? i'll give you my g4m ID there. hope you'd also tell yours. thanks!:)
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